Verbal humiliation is in the SM relationship a domination by the words and sentences pronounced by the Dominatrix, and which undermine our pride, our vainglory, and our self-esteem! This generates a very strong feeling of shame which is unbearable, especially since we have esteem and consideration for the Dominatrix in question! The more shameful and unbearable it is and the more it provides very strong sensations, then finally the psychological pain turns into pleasure!

As in any SM activity, what is important for the submissive is to perceive pleasure, voluptuousness, and well-being in the face of the Dominatrix when she pronounces the most humiliating sentences for oneself! It’s to see her aiming as accurately as possible to humiliate and do as much harm as possible!

These humiliating sentences must touch our intimacy, our pride, our vainglory. Often submissives are people with strong personalities. They find it difficult to be dominated by others and it is precisely the fact of being in the SM relationship of verbal humiliation that is “unbearable” to them and therefore gives them a strong feeling!

The more the Dominatrix utters sentences that put us down, that target our weak points, the more sensations, shame, “intolerable” psychological suffering it brings. However, the more these psychological sufferings thus created are intolerable, the more they produce very strong sensations and ultimately pleasure.

The more contrasts there are between the attraction that we can have for the pretty Dominatrix and the fact that on the contrary she hurts us, humiliates us, and lowers us, and the more the suffering becomes so unbearable that it turns into excitement and pleasure up to ejaculation!

It is therefore not the fact of suffering that provides these sensations, it is the fact that these humiliations and these sufferings are produced by a woman who is happy to do it and who seduces us moreover.