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Spanking in the context of BDSM

In the spanking episode, taken from the first book of Confessions by Jean-Jacques Rousseau, he admits that “this punishment did not achieve its goal”. Instead of producing fear, the spanking produced a first pleasure.

He notes that this episode decided all his subsequent behavior with the opposite sex. If he never dared to ask women explicitly, he always loved to put himself at their feet, on his knees, in a position of devotion and submission.

And there are many accounts of spanking as a source of pleasure as well as pain or humiliation.

However, to be part of BDSM practices, spanking must be long and vigorous enough and really color the buttocks and will result from an agreement between two consenting adults each with their clearly defined role. It will always be given on the bare buttocks, even if it started with panties or a thong.

It can be given in different positions, including the classic OTK (over the knee), also called old-fashioned or on a spanking bench.

MA has just equipped her dungeon with a superb bench that awaits you to expose your bare buttocks to their long-awaited punishment.

The announcement by the Mistress of a spanking always has a magical effect on the behavior of the submissive who fears, but above all awaits this punishment which is also a reward.

The methodical, targeted and rhythmic hitting on the submissive’s buttocks makes this “punishment” become a search, the submissive wishes that it would never stop.

In fact, the redder the buttocks are, the more painless the new slaps are.

It is as if the spanking, although painful, had an anesthetic effect.

And in the end, the submissive’s feeling is that a spanking, especially manual, is never long enough or hard enough.

Of course, in addition to the hand, a spanking can be administered with a whip, a cane, a belt, a wooden spoon or a hairbrush, to name only the most common instruments.

Be careful though, while the hand will not leave marks, the instruments can mark the buttocks slightly or more permanently. (Between a few hours and three days) depending on the strength and duration of the correction.

The sensations and marks left by each of these instruments are very different, so while the cane stings and will leave well-marked linear traces, the wooden spoon hits a larger area and will instead leave some round bruise.

Spanking can be sensual, naughty, or punitive. In the case of a naughty spanking, the Mistress may, between slaps, insert her hand towards the genitals of the submissive to stimulate them, or even accelerate the pleasure before refusing it.

Thanks to her great experience and expertise, Mistress Angelik will be attentive to the reactions of her submissive and his buttocks, she will reduce or increase the force in relation to these reactions.

At the end of your spanking, one thing is sure, you will ask for more.

A submissive who likes very big spankings…

I decided to write about my encounter with Mistress Angelik. After some BDSM research on the net, I came across her site and after reading it, I clicked on contact, introducing myself very simply: “Man in his sixties seeks mistress for very big spankings”. The response was swift: my mistress gave me a date and a place to meet. My blood pressure rises at the thought of being at the mercy of her hands. So here it is, D-day, I get ready and make my way to the indicated metro station, arriving early and feverishly seated in front of the bar for a coffee at the mere thought of what awaits me. At the appointed time, my mistress gives me all the information I need to join her, and I’m off to her dungeon. She asks me to get naked as quickly as possible, so I do, and enter the room, where every kind of instrument is on display. After placing a collar around my neck attached by a leash, I have to get down on one knee to introduce myself and ask what my wishes were.

“A really big spanking no matter what the instrument, all over the buttocks area, between the buttocks and even the sex.”

Mistress approves and points out the safeword, which would make everything stop in case of discomfort. Once this time has passed, she ties up my sex and testicles to keep me at her mercy, then begins the first slaps, one, two, three … After a warm-up, my buttocks begin to taste the instruments on display. Delicately chosen, they come down and bite harder and harder on the skin, which turns purple at their touch: whip, paddle, wooden spoon, martinet, badine, everything goes. She asks me if we can continue, and I answer yes without hesitation. A phase of play begins, in which, after having written down instruments and a number of strokes on small pieces of paper, I have to select them to receive the punishment. 25 strokes of the whip, 25 strokes of the paddle, such was the menu, and for dessert my choice of the last instrument before the end of the session. Mistress takes a photo to show me the glow of my buttocks, then unleashes a final salvo of paddle strokes on anything that wasn’t glowing. After a glass of water, it’s time to call it a day.

Her verbal delicacy, her savoir être and her firmness make Maitresse a very endearing and convivial person.

Thank you Maitresse Angelik
Submitted Fafi