More than spanking itself, it’s the whole climate around “being indebted to spanking”.
The sanction of the submissive for a behavior …
What could be more “normal” than being punished for bad behavior ?
It all depends on how to bring the submissive there.
Neither exaggerated nor unrealistic: severe, but fair.
Disruptive, destabilizing, formidable, unstoppable!
So: a judgment, a “reasoned” sanction, based on the minimum number of spankings essential according to my only estimate
All accompanied by a very strict warning: the slightest reluctance on his part and the minimum number increases.
Nothing but the verdict can be already humiliating to tears …
The submissive is indebted for spanking and must be under pressure to increase the penalty if I decide to.